I offer training on all aspects of BDSM, fetishism and related subjects and can design a course, talk or workshop to suit each person, couple or group, whatever your requirements and reasons for wanting to learn.

The following will give you an impression of what I can offer...

Understanding your submissive man and Loving Domination

This is an interesting insight into why so many men want, desire, crave and NEED to be dominated by a female. I offer a series of seminars and workshops that can be attended by groups of females, or just by a single Lady Owner...

How to make BDSM work in a loving relationship – ‘Loving Domination'

One of the primary reasons that I am a very busy dominatrix is that men find it increasingly difficult - more often than not impossible - to confide their most intimate core needs and desires to their significant other.

I believe I can shed some light on why this is so...

To understand this issue, we must first look at why it happens.

My belief is that the only thing that stops a man from confiding his deepest, darkest desires is FEAR.

This is fear on many levels: the fear of not being accepted, the fear of being branded a pervert and finally the fear of not being loved and being abandoned with the loss of everything involved.

Let's take a submissive that is interested in humiliation for example. He may be the successful ‘man of the house', the bread winner, take care of the bills and so forth, but he also wants to dress as a sissy and be made to eat his own spunk and clean the toilet with his tongue!

The problem is exacerbated with inherent masculine teachings, which tell us that men should be men!

What the fuck!

A man is a man, and I believe that all men are born with a natural need to surrender to a female.

Think about it. Men are nurtured in a woman's womb. They are born through a woman's vagina. They are fed by a woman's breasts. They are surrounded by women every minute of every day. They are punished and consoled at the hands of a woman, taught right from wrong and denied by a woman, especially if disappointment needs to be shown.

I believe that every man at some time has had the fantasy of being dominated and taken by a female.

Yet still they refuse to open their little mouths and ask!

I find this extremely sad, busily sad however!

BDSM can bring such an intense intimacy and trust into a relationship. There are of course many reasons why the subject is always kept under wraps. Exploring these reasons, and understanding why your partner feels the need to be dominated is as important as learning to accept it and enjoy it. Having clarity of the situation and finding solutions is crucial to maintaining an exciting loving Femdom relationship.

During the seminars and workshops, you will learn:

•  How to feel, understand and use your female power

•  Dominatrix training, assertiveness and self empowerment

•  The logistics of a session

•  How to begin, creating the environment and session content

•  How to run the show, how to behave and what to wear

•  What props will be needed - information on types of available equipment and how to use them safely. A foundation course for novices can also arranged.

•  Turning your man wild with domination - the secrets of seduction, being cruel to be kind, finding his ‘hot spot' and loving manipulation!

Finally being a true dominant and believer in female supremacy I feel the need to offer every woman the opportunity to develop and become a ‘Woman of Power'. Becoming a Woman of Power means taking charge, initiating and experimenting with domination and BDSM.

If you don't take the time and find out if BDSM floats your blokes' boat, then more fool you!

Dominance Training for Ladies

This workshop and seminar series includes the fundamentals and logistics of a session, such as how to behave and what to say, how to take control and help your submissive relinquish control, wearing the appropriate attire, what props and equipment will be needed and how to use them correctly and safely.

Also, you will learn how to find out what kind of scene, torture and punishment or fetish your submissive enjoys; includes verbal and non verbal strategies and body language study.

Gimps, Games and Gifts Night for Ladies.

This is designed as an informal gathering for fun loving, open minded females, who are already in the scene or have a desire to know more about it.

It is an opportunity to explore and purchase the tools of the trade, paddles, whips, clamps and much more. You will also learn how to use each item correctly and safely.

I will bring along my personal gimp to serve canapés and drinks throughout the evening. He will also be available as a demonstration model and has been trained to entertain my friends.

A question and answer session will take place on all areas of BDSM, fetishism and related subjects. There is also an opportunity for each attendee to have a private consultation with myself for any personal and intimate guidance.

Games such as pin the tail on the donkey will be played and prizes will be won.

Of course my slave is the donkey!

Notice, I said he is the donkey, not hung like a donkey. I don't want to be sued for false advertising!

There is an opportunity for my slave to be raffled off at the end of the evening and all proceeds go to my favourite children's charity.